Lisa Sharon Harper


We don’t really like to talk about “enemies” in the church. I mean, who likes to think they walk around with people out there who mean to do them harm? Jesus said it plainly, though: “Love your enemies” (Matthew 5:44). Jesus knew that sometimes, for whatever reason, we will have enemies. They will actively or passively wish for, work toward, or plot our ruin. Still, the command is to love.

I’ve had a few enemies in my life.

Brian was a friend of mine in junior high. I moved from Philadelphia to Cape May, New Jersey—from a mostly black world to a world that was so white, the 4H club was huge. Brian was one of the first friends I made in my new home. We grew apart in high school, but I always considered him a friend.

One day during my senior year in high school, two guys showed up at our family’s home at 12:15 AM. They parked their car, got out, and yelled at our house: “Niggers! Go back to Africa! We don’t want you here!” and stuff like that. They yelled for about 15 minutes. Then they drove off. They came back and yelled at our house at 12:15 AM, every night for two weeks. We didn’t know who it was. Finally, one night my dad hid in our car and followed them when they drove off. He got the license plate number. The plate traced back to Brian.

How do we deal with enemies? My response then was to do nothing. Brian was found guilty and sentenced to community service, and we didn’t speak again until our 15-year class reunion.

Four years before the reunion, I was on staff with Intervarsity Christian Fellowship, and I led a Bible study for non-Christian students at UCLA. We studied Matthew 5:43-48. Jesus says the weirdest thing at the end of that passage: “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” In context, “be perfect” means love perfectly. What it looks like to love perfectly in the text is to love your enemies. (And here’s the kicker…) That’s what Jesus did with the Pharisees who plotted to kill him. And it’s what the Father did with us. The Father loved us—his enemies—by sending Jesus to die for us—his enemies.

I thought of Brian. Could I “love” Brian? Eleven years later, I was still angry. I was still hurt. I still saw him as the enemy. I prayed. I asked for God’s eyes to see him. What I saw was disarming. I saw a broken boy made in the image of God. I released him of his debt to me.

It was about 11 years after the fact. I lived 3,000 miles away and didn’t have a clue where he lived anymore, but I got an idea. I made some phone calls and tracked him down. I bought a cool Los Angeles key ring and placed the key ring inside a simple envelope. I wrote a note letting Brian know he’d hurt me but that I’d forgiven him—completely—and that I was praying for him and for his well-being. And I wrote, “Every time you look at this key ring, I want you to know you are forgiven.”

Four years later, I saw Brian for the first time in 15 years. And he said simply, “Forgive me.”

“I already have,” I said, smiling.

Love your enemies. It seems that nowadays, political enemies are the hardest to love. I’m a Democrat, and I’m in the middle of writing a book with a Tea Party Republican. The book’s title is Left, Right & Christ: Evangelical Faith in Politics. We’re both evangelicals, but our experiences of the world and our approaches to Scripture have shaped vastly different political passions. As a result, we often find ourselves on opposing sides of the public square.

I wish I could say I have loved perfectly. I haven’t. Maybe society has done an outstanding job of dehumanizing the political other lately. It’s much easier to hate and fear people when you can’t see their humanity—when you can’t see the image of God in their eyes.

Remembering Brian gives me hope.


Lisa Sharon Harper
Author, Evangelical Does Not Equal Republican…Or Democrat (The New Press)

Co-founder and Executive Director, NY Faith & Justice President, National Faith &

Justice Network Board Member, New Evangelical Partnership for the Common Good (Speaker/Activist/Author/Playwright/Poet)

Having worked with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship as an Arts Specialist and as the Greater Los Angeles Director of Racial Reconciliation, Ms. Harper helped develop the Ethnic Reconciliation tool “Race Matters” and co-wrote the “Race Matters” Handbook. She conducted ethnic reconciliation training conferences and wrote analyses of and consulted with IVCF campus movements throughout Southern California. She also conducted staff training in ethnic reconciliation through Intervarsity’s National Institute of Staff Education and Training (NISET) and spoke for students throughout the U.S.



 





Dave Rahn


This question must be personalized to make sense. A sociological survey might allow us to say that 38% of us are ready. But this isn’t really satisfying, and we could hardly make sense of such data anyway.

Then there’s the moment-in-time aspect of this question. If I can say yes today… If I could say yes for each of the past 14 years without interruption but cannot say yes this afternoon when an opportunity presents itself to love my local liberal or crazy conservative, it doesn’t count that I’ve accrued previous credit, does it?

I’ve probably got a pretty erratic résumé when it comes to loving everyone, especially those I may have permission to hate. But it’s not because I dispute in any way that this is my obligation.

I am convinced that we Christians are to be a holy people, set apart by our distinction so the God of all creation might be known by the truth-bearing weight of our lives in Jesus. As Paul told the Athenians, in God we live and move and have our being. Our lives, the apostle wrote the Colossians, are hidden in Christ, who is our hope of glory. But today, in spite of Jesus’ clear warnings to double-minded or less than earnest followers, it is too frequently culturally acceptable to assume a personal editorial posture when we consider the words of Christ.

The very notion of following has been co-opted by our Facebook-Twitter way of relating to each other. We can watch what others say or do as often as we want and engage in any way we want. Customize. Personalize. This is my social network so I can make it work to my taste.

This may be a fine formula for popularity contests, but it’s a lousy way to discover objective, absolute truth that requires a reversal of my own self-referential tendencies. We don’t easily embrace lifestyle expectations that challenge what we already believe. And if we take seriously the call to follow our Lord (boss, right?) Jesus and what he taught us to obey (ugh, can’t we soften that word?), we will inevitably be forced to make changes that are not personal-preference friendly.

We may admire the theoretical teaching of Jesus about loving enemies because it so clearly would make the world a better place. But we don’t like to linger in front of expectations that demand we make personal changes so that we accurately represent the King and his kingdom in 2011 America.

Back to me. I use deflection to disguise the gaps in my own practice of the great commandment. If we begin talking about loving those who live outside the realm of political or social acceptability, I can come up with a few stories that will get me off the hook. (This is a tactic many underprepared students use—offering an early response in a discussion can make them less likely to be called upon later!) But there are entire groups of people with whom I never engage relationally. I easily ignore both the opportunities and obligation to love them as I hasten along to my preferred target of lost teenagers.

This would be a sad confession if it weren’t for the fact that it doesn’t tell the whole story. By God’s grace, my extremely long list of acceptable exclusions to be loved has dwindled over the years. It keeps shrinking. And the biggest reason is that I have come to believe that I truly deserve to be on such lists myself.

I suspect that more of us will become more ready to love without qualification when we truly recognize that the love of God we enjoy is totally undeserved.




Chris Folmsbee


I really dislike this question. It bothers me on several levels. First, the fact that we even have to ask it to evoke a sense of clarity around this subject is disturbing to me. It makes my stomach hurt.

Second, I’ve never been told to hate anyone and can’t imagine that this is true for any person. If this question genuinely represents the way some people think about others, then we are much more distant from shalom than I had hoped we might be at this point in history. And if that is true, then that just sucks because that means that the church is doing a horrible job of living missionally.

I suppose that, for people who use the words tolerance and love as synonyms, this question might be helpful to evoke deeper thought on the subject. I suppose I’ve been taught to tolerate the views of others but not to hate them. But tolerance isn’t love. Love envelops tolerance, but tolerance is too small of a human quality to envelop a robust theology of love.

I think Christians are ready to love those with differing convictions and beliefs. My use of the word ready, however, is to mean prepared, not necessarily willing. We have everything we need in order to love others. Here is what we have that prepares or readies us:

• A God who values peace and wholeness
• A God who values community
• A God who commands that we love others
• A God who models how to love others
• A God who continues to transform a people to mediate God’s love for the sake of the world
• A God who desires that kingdom principles are active on earth as they are in heaven
• A God who gives us biblical teachings in which to embrace and engage

So the question has straightforward responses. But are we willing? Now that is a different question with a whole other set of responses. In my mind, to be willing is to be eager or to be enthusiastically looking for opportunities to unreservedly love others. This is a much different scenario from being prepared.

To be willing to love others who have differing convictions and beliefs requires that we be people who:

• Are culturally sensitive
• Are aware of our contexts
• Are humble
• Are a praying people
• Are aware of the needs of others
• Are a forgiving people—the first to forgive
• Are the first to admit wrongdoing
• Are seeking ways to right the wrongs in the world
• Are good listeners
• Are people of hospitality
• Are people who believe proximity and time are essential to community
• Are people who see with compassion, not comparison

Are we ready to love those we are told to hate? Yes, as Christians, we have everything we need to ready ourselves for that privilege. Are we willing to love those we are told to hate? I sure hope so, since that is the whole point of Christianity.


Andy Root


I’m tempted to just cut and paste a review from Charles Taylor’s Secular Age here. I won’t! My response to this statement is that it is true. God is dead! As Taylor has brilliantly argued, we have constructed societies and cultures where it is easy not to believe in God. What is interesting is that just a few hundred years ago, it was nearly impossible not to believe in God. Now, it sometimes feels like it is impossible to believe. Atheism really is an invention of modernity and, as Taylor would argue, modernity’s obsession with the self.

One of the most interesting things I remember about Taylor’s tome (an idea he actually stole from Max Weber), which I think relates to this response, is that our world has become disenchanted. For most of human history, God (not to mention demons, angels, and other supernatural forces) was everywhere. The forest was haunted; the lightning struck because of God; the rain came because of religious practice.

But since those days, our natural world has been turned inside out, revealing its mysteries through the instruments of science. Sure, maybe Pat Robertson or some other TV evangelist will make God the source of natural disasters, but many of us devoted believers tend to turn to the Weather Channel and its meteorologists for answers more than our Bibles or priests.

So, in how we have organized our lives, God is dead. It is amazing how long many of us can go without thinking about God or church or communion. We have a world, unlike the past, that is built beyond God. We live without mystery.

Or do we? Science killed God through the use of doubt. Science began doubting that our conceptions of God and God’s work matched empirical examination. Yet, what is interesting is that in our time doubt has grown and now has been turned on science. Not long ago it was assumed that science, while it used doubt, existed beyond doubt. Yet many of us are now coming to see that even science (maybe especially science) has its bias.

Many of the world’s mysteries may be explainable, but even so, there still exists within us a huge mystery, the mystery of our own existence, the mystery of why there is something instead of nothing. Our lives may be organized beyond God; we don’t need God to exist in our culture (where in the past it was impossible to live without God). But nevertheless, there remain deep mysteries that surround issues of life and death, mysteries about love and possibility.

One of the reasons I have focused so much on the place of suffering in ministry in my writing is that it is in the experience of suffering—the experience of coming face to face with nothingness—our hermeneutically imposed cultural lenses of living beyond the need for God come crashing down. And, of course, the God we find in suffering, questions, yearning, and need is never the God we imagined, never the God we’ve caged for our own use. Rather, we find this God, in love, weak so we can be strong; we find this God dead so we might live. In a world where it is so easy to live as if God is dead, “only a suffering God can help,” as Dietrich Bonheoffer uttered from his prison cell while Berlin lay in ruins in view from his cell window.

It may be true that we can live as if there is no God, that God is dead. I can fill my life with many things; I can work and entertain myself without any need for God. I can assume all mysteries are solved, or that my job is to buy and gratify myself. But up against the thinness of my being, up against broken love, lost dreams, fear, and need, I recognize that I’m neck deep in mystery that yearns for transcendence.



 





Dave Rahn


What an interesting statement! I could only wish that I were sitting at the coffee shop with a friend who had just uttered it. It begs interrogation.

I first want to know if it is intended to say that the way that God interacts with humankind somehow transcends or ignores culture. Such a position only makes sense if God is a distant deity. The Bible certainly does not present such a picture.

Culture is at least a derived creation of our Father, who loves diversity in his design. Even the climate differences on planet earth lend themselves to persons having vastly different life experiences together. Ice, cold, and long periods of darkness provide backdrops for human relationships that have little in common with life on a tropical island paradise. This natural dimension suggests that we be slow to assume that all aspects of culture are the result of sin’s fallout.

But that doesn’t mean culture is not often co-opted for sinful purposes—such as an arrogant people united together in pursuit of godless greatness at Babel. God always opposes such pride—for our benefit. In this instance, he responds with humanity’s first centrifuge mixer, and participants in the great tower building project are linguistically divided. Lest future generations learn other ways to bind their hearts in willful opposition to their Creator, the Lord confounds them with language differences.

Culture has been linked to language ever since. As language evolves to accommodate each people group’s distinct communication needs, culture continues on a trajectory that seems increasingly particularistic. There are even subcultures within high schools that hang together by using their own identifying lingo.

Fortunately for us, culture has also been used by God to deliver the hope of the world. The Lord God anchored his communication to the world he loves within defined cultural limitations. He chose a nomadic people to enter into a covenant relationship with him, one through which he could bless the nations. This people has had a unique history and been tethered to a smallish parcel of land that is, to this day, hotly contested.

Neighboring countries have had an impact on Israel’s culture. Prophets, poets, and kings left their imprint. Some stood as faithful messengers for the Lord God; others were case examples of how not to behave if you are one of God’s chosen people. Ultimately, into this nation’s script, God entered the Roman-occupied scene in this theatrical production as a babe born in Bethlehem.

To understand what the Lord has said—what we need to know—we must appreciate that there are cultural distinctions through which the Word of God has come to us. We can be saved because God delivered his redemption plan in and through culture.

But maybe that’s not the intent of this provocation. It could be that we’re being invited to critique the culture that is forming us today. This is no easy task. Culture is such a pervasive, life-forming ingredient that most of us have genuine difficulty even questioning how or if we may have been duped by the water we swim in every day.

Does culture bend us toward godlessness? Yes. But what should we expect? Our sin-soiled hearts are inclined away from the Father, not toward him. And culture is ultimately a sociologically understood phenomenon. We sinners collectively shape our culture.

What’s difficult for me to assess as a fellow water-dweller is whether the American space and time I’ve occupied for 57 years is significantly less friendly to the reality of God than other times/spaces/places in history. I suspect we’re spiraling down and away from the Lord today. One reason is that I think I’ve seen Romans 1 accurately describe the movement I’ve witnessed in my lifetime. I also wonder if we’re not reaping Enlightenment-born self-sufficiency as a macro-fruit that conforms to the eschatological story line of Scripture. Things will get worse before Jesus returns for his people.

By the way, God’s ultimate redemption will usher in the culture of King Jesus, no longer via minority witness, but through his triumphant rule everywhere. That’s cool!




Steve Argue


If God is dead to culture, we have a problem. The sacred texts we read, the creeds, art, literature—even .Slant33—are embedded in cultural forms of text, context, illustration, images, events, and community. It is impossible to think or dialogue about God apart from culture.

So, in this space, let’s frame this statement for a youth ministry context. Maybe a concern isn’t that God is dead to culture, but unknowingly, youth workers can become dead to culture. Atrophy toward culture grows through subtle statements I often hear in youth ministry discourse. Here’s what I mean…

“We just teach the Bible here.” While every youth worker must grow in the discipline of careful exegetical and hermeneutical study, no one can “just teach the Bible” as if immune to cultural forces. When someone approaches the Bible, he brings his own cultural assumptions into the text, causing him to emphasize certain things more than others. What a youth worker teaches, how she teaches it, what illustrations she uses, etc., say as much about her as they do about the text. To think otherwise is to be blind to one’s own cultural perspectives. Your gender, age, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, education, etc., affect your view of the text. Failure to see this claims a false objectivity and often results in a dangerous use of power. Be wary of this mentality in others and in yourself.

“Jesus did it, so should you.” A.J. Jacobs’s book A Year of Living Biblically highlights the beautiful and absurd with trying to live just as the Bible says. The challenge comes when one tries to connect pre-modern writings with modern/postmodern, 21st-century, western culture. If they’re honest, most youth workers self-edit passages that “don’t apply” today by turning them into spiritual metaphors—except for Jesus. Most of youth ministry practices and youth worker charges to youth are to do as Jesus did.

While I support the Christian call to follow Jesus, I don’t believe this means that Christians can copy Jesus’ behaviors because it’s out of reach. It’s impossible because Jesus is, well, God; and because one-for-one cultural transposition from 1st-century Palestine to, say, 21st-century Grand Rapids, Michigan, is rarely possible. Approaches that turn Jesus into a behavioral archetype create either a genie Jesus who fulfills all our needs (if we do what he says) or an oppressive big brother who’s an impossible act to follow (“Why aren’t you more like Jesus?” Poor James!). Jesus cannot be the trump card for youth ministry practices and behaviors unless youth workers are comfortable with following an acultural Jesus that contradicts his very incarnation and renders his followers (the church) irrelevant to this world.

Us/Them. Listen closely to youth worker conversations among themselves and with students, and you’ll often notice an us/them perspective with culture—saved/unsaved; good/bad; happy/sad; enlightened/lost, etc. I’m not suggesting that everything is up for grabs, only that nice, neat categories where one claims to have God on their side fails to appreciate life’s blurring reality. Things are rarely all bad or all good. People are rarely all right or all wrong. Christians don’t have their act all together, and non-religious types often act more Christian than Christians! Those who hold neat, clear lines between Christians and others fail to appreciate God’s story that is ringing in every part of our world.

Therefore, youth workers need to quickly move away from labeling things as Christian or secular—whether it’s books, movies, art, or music. Labels like these rob youth workers (and those they shepherd) from learning about the dramatic gospel story that springs up through multiple art forms. Humanity, longing, love, betrayal, relationship, sacrifice, community, faithfulness, struggle, and unresolved issues are part of our human existence—one that God chooses to engage, even enter. What we find is that we’re all in this together. Culture wars aren’t necessary, and there is always a we starting point somewhere, even if it’s simply our humanity.

“Jesus is the answer.” Youth workers’ desire to help students is beautiful, but I notice that their message often gets reduced to Jesus being the answer. The message goes something like this: Everything will be better; your problems will be solved; your situation will be resolved; your anxiety will go away…if you just trust Jesus. Certainly we want people to find Jesus trustworthy, but youth workers must be careful not to reduce culture’s problems to a generic solution, even if it’s Jesus.

What does it mean for Jesus to heal a son’s pain over his parents’ divorce; a school’s fear over the continual threat of violence; or a sophomore girl’s anxiety over her boyfriend pressuring her to have sex? Youth workers must be more articulate about how to help students find culturally specific good news. Let’s not offend students with generic Jesus answers to their specific needs and pressures that are relationally, emotionally, developmentally, and culturally complex. There is a specificity of the gospel that our cultures need, or it’s not good news at all.

Let’s listen to each other and encourage one another to understand the cultures of which we are a part. Maybe these reflections can serve as symptoms or warning signs for youth workers becoming dead to the cultures in which they are undeniably bound. We must pursue a maturity that appreciates the cultural complexities that transcends neat categories, or else we will become dead to culture, offering answers to questions no one is asking; proclaiming an irrelevant and insensitive gospel. May it never be.


Andy Root


So maybe one of the latest research movements that has impacted youth ministry is new discoveries in neurology and overall brain science. The latest big finding has been that teenagers actually have primitive brains—brains not fully developed—making certain forms of decision making and moral reasoning impossible—so says the research. And youth ministry people pick this up and go with assumptions that kids (especially the boys in their ministries) have animal-like brains. Lately this has led some youth ministry people to ask big questions, like, Can a young person live a life of discipleship before his or her brain fully develops? Is what we are calling them to be and do realistic? Can a teenager live a sanctified life, even?

I have to admit I’m not a big fan of this research. Not because I don’t think it might be right. Believe me, I’m no brain doctor. But I’m worried about the popularized perspective that many youth workers are drawing from because it holds the danger of perpetuating the ontological state of adolescence. If there is a teenage brain, if the young person’s brain is developmentally primitive, then we should keep young people caged behind the walls of adolescence. We should fortify teenage-hood. The problem is that this research so easily becomes reductionistic: Of course we can’t have young people fully involved in the congregation; of course we can’t listen to their theological voices; their brains are primitive! Which too often gets defined as “less than”.

Plus, this perspective is not only reductionistic in the sense of seeing adolescents as less than but also in the sense of ignoring the environmental impact on the brain. It may very well be true, and powerfully so, that when the hard sciences take pictures of the brain, exposing its dimensions and shape, the teenage brain looks different from the brain of a 45-year-old. But that static picture is all that can be seen in a laboratory. It does not take into consideration how the brain changes and what impact society and culture have on the biological organism.

We know for certain that culture does impact biology, not just the other way around. For instance, we know that girls’ menstrual cycles, not long ago, started much later (between the ages of 15-16), but in the last few decades, we have seen a significant drop in the age of a girl’s first period (around ages 11-12, sometimes even 9). All the answers for why this biological reality has changed point to culture. It may have to do with exposure to light, or hormones in the milk children drink and other dietary realities, or greater exposure to information. Whatever the reason, this illustrates that culture has the power to change biological realities.

The problem with the popular brain science that many youth workers are drawing from is that it sees the human brain as static, disconnected from social, relational, and cultural realities. We no doubt are beings with brains, but these brains are wired for social connection (as explored in object relations psychology) and culture (as studied in the sociology of knowledge, à la Peter Berger). And if you scratch beyond the surface of this popular brain science, what you find is that most theorists, especially those who have drawn brain science into interdisciplinary conversations (as does Daniel Siegel and Louis Cozolino), say that the human brain is plastic, changeable, because the human brain is social. These theorists, drawing from the best in neurology, have shown that our social relationships—our engagements with culture—have the power to reshape the brain. For instance, they’ve discovered that the brains of those who’ve experienced trauma or abuse look different than they did prior to the experiences.

So sure, culture and society may shape 12–24-year-olds’ primitive-looking brains, but doesn’t that only call the church deeper? It means we need to engage young people in social realities. Social realities, like life in a congregation, can quite literally reshape their brains. Youth ministry actually has the power (through the Holy Spirit) to change the shape of teenagers’ brains. That’s a pretty big deal, and that’s what the research implies. Rather than pulling back from what we give to or expect from teenagers, it pushes for us to open the doors of the youth room and get young people involved in the social/relational reality of the wider congregation. Because the brain is social (plastic), then getting their teenage brains engaged with adult brains will transform them.




 





Dave Rahn


True confession. I winced inwardly at this question, like an alcoholic might struggle when someone innocently asks which beer tastes best. Without totally dodging the question, I want to take advantage of this moment to tell my story and offer the caution of my experience.

First, I am wired by the Lord to be logical, analytical, and strategic. I love solving problems by applying skills of intellectual reasoning. Lots of my friends are inclined to use their minds; I tend to wear them out. Some of the most significant disciple-making influences in my young Christian life—I put my faith in Jesus when I was 16—were books. Before finishing high school I had read Francis Schaffer’s True Spirituality, Watchman Nee’s The Normal Christian Life, and Josh McDowell’s Evidence That Demands a Verdict. Whatever else was true for me, following Jesus made sense.

Without benefit of much self-reflection and being evangelistically zealous, I began leading a campus life outreach ministry as a college freshman. Over the next 13 years, my role in the organization expanded. And I led on the strength of my diligent activity driven by strategy. How can I reach that particular kid for Christ? Which school should our ministry expand into next, and why? Who are the young staff members I need to bring on the team so we can grow? What activities do we engage in that distract us from doing our best? How can we make our programs, our wrap-ups, each relationship more effective? In the midst of this experience I slipped away for a year and got a master’s degree, fortifying my conviction that thinking well would lead me to greater fruitfulness in ministry.

When I migrated into a college teaching role, it seemed like a natural and strategic use of my gifts. I could leverage this new job for continued influence in the kingdom. After getting a PhD from Purdue, I realized I had something strategic to offer our little Christian college. If I were turned loose to do research that concentrated on the practice of youth ministry, Huntington College (now Huntington University) could stake out a distinctive niche in a young academic discipline. We could emerge as contributing leaders by serving through research.

This focus seemed to fit me perfectly. While I distributed my energy equally between big-question research problems and life-on-life investment with my students, the strategic noisemaker for the college was clearly our published research. I still believe that research can make incredibly important contributions to the body of knowledge in youth ministry, especially because our common practices have lacked rigorous tests of effectiveness. Youth ministry has been largely shaped by a process of trial-and-error experiences that get interpreted and passed along through a conference/workshop delivery system. It’s not that such insights are not valuable; it’s just that we are vulnerable to biases of interpretation that will mislead us without proper scrutiny.

As I approach nearly 40 years of doing youth ministry, I find myself leading the national ministry strategies of Youth for Christ, an organization of evangelistic missionaries that has very little patience for research. Far from imposing my own values on our efforts, I am coming to reckon with the limitations of my own über-strategic inclinations. I have realized that being strategic has made it harder, not easier, to pray with childlike dependency; that transformational love is delivered to lost kids one at a time by people who know they are well loved; that the power of God’s Word to change lives is downright mysterious and resistant to research-based understanding; that observable, fruit-producing unity is unattainable without heart-hidden humility leading the way.

In a fascinating way I feel like I am standing at a moment in my life where I gain the benefit of a backward-looking fresh explanation of how my ministry has been fruitful. It’s like I’m living in the “reveal” moment of The Sixth Sense, discovering that the storyline I have used for years to explain how I have been effective might be masking the truth. What the Lord wants to do in and through me has met considerable resistance from the research-oriented, strategy-crafting side of my soul.

Had I chosen to answer this blog’s question in a straightforward way, I would have given a shout out to the fabulous sociological research done by Christian Smith and team that maps the adolescent landscape of spirituality and religiosity in America. I also would have tossed a bone to the world of distinct domains research, inaugurated by Elliot Turiel in the late ’70s. He and others have made timely contributions to understanding the common structures we employ as we construct meaning for making moral judgments, explaining how teens and parents, for instance, arrive at different conclusions around all kinds of issues. My friend Denny Howard has made a discovery during his clinical counseling practice with more than 3,000 ministry professionals that has allowed him to predict what the major crisis issues will be, based on ministry experience and age. His sample of 400 constitutes a strong pilot study that he hopes to expand into a wonderfully robust research project with immense benefit to the care of ministers.

I still value research very much. In the master’s program I lead, graduates make original, research-based contributions to youth ministry as part of their final projects.

But to guard the progress that seems to be taking place in my own heart, I refuse to personally camp out in the research forests any more. As a matter of conviction, searching through research for solutions is a slippery slope that requires me to be tethered to soul-guarding friends before I traverse its terrain.

My apologies if I’ve disappointed any readers. I’m sure my blog was a “slant” that was not anticipated by those writing a worthwhile question. For what it’s worth, my heart is a bit lighter as I’ve offered this unsolicited testimony. God is good!




Mike King


A paper titled “Brands: The Opiate of the Nonreligious Masses?” has been published in Marketing Science 1. The research team was made up of scholars from Tel Aviv University, Duke University, and New York University. According to their data, they claim that religiously minded people are less interested in consumer products that are branded by a major brand name. In the study, those who claim to be non-religious are much more reliant on well-known brand products, especially when they have the financial means to afford major brands.

The research team theorizes, “Brands and religiosity may serve as substitutes for one another because both allow individuals to express their feelings of self-worth.”

“‘Brands are a signal of self-worth,’ Fitzsimons 2 said. ‘We're signaling to others that we care about ourselves and that we feel good about ourselves and that we matter in this world. It's more than I'm hip or cool,’ he said: ‘I'm a worthwhile person, and I matter, and you should respect me and think that I'm a good person, because I've got the D&G on my glasses.’” 3

The Christian faith is to be lived within a community of practice. Being connected to a faith community says a lot about who people are and what they value. If we don’t know who we are in Jesus Christ, and if we struggle to make meaning out of life through faith, then certainly Apple, Juicy Couture, Gap, or Urban Outfitters are more than willing to help fill the void by providing some sense of meaning or self-worth, right? Some marketers are actually attempting to attach religious overtone to their brands in order to attract consumers looking for meaning, identity, and purpose in life—think True Religion.

Andy Root, at a recent youth worker training at Youthfront, pointed out that young adults are selecting and creating identities for themselves. One can create a profile and craft an identity based on what one buys, wears, and consumes. This increases the importance of a renewed and vigorous emphasis on Christian formation and an intentional theological exploration of what it means to help adolescents form identities rooted in Jesus Christ. A theology that focuses on what it means to live a cruciform life is essential in the midst of our consumerist cultural realities.

This study is very interesting for those of us involved in ministry to adolescents and young adults as we engage in dialogue about what brings meaning to our lives. The researchers’ claim that those who are identified as “religious-minded” people are less likely to be enslaved by major status brands is encouraging to me. Embracing an ethos that Jesus Christ is enough will help us counter the script that suggests we find meaning through the creed I consume, therefore I am.

1. "Brands: The Opiate of the Non-Religious Masses?" Ron Shachar, Tülin Erdem, Keisha M. Cutright, Gavan J. Fitzsimons, Marketing Science, articles in advance, Sept. 24, 2010. DOI: 10.1287/mksc.1100.0591
2. Gavan J. Fitzsimons; R. David Thomas Professor of Marketing and Psychology; F.M. Kirby Research Fellow; Duke University
3. http://www.dukenews.duke.edu/2010/09/brandreligion.html


Danny Kwon


After 16 years as the youth pastor at my church, I am now in the midst of an interesting phenomenon. I am both the youth pastor and parent of two students in the youth group. This has led to a most interesting outlook for me. For example, when it comes to how our youth ministry staff and volunteer considers what we want to teach through our small-group ministries, my approach has been considerably different. I have gone from thinking What do I want our students to learn? to What do I want my children to learn?

I suppose, then, that while all of us try to work with parents and consider families in our ministries, when your own children are part of your group, a different type of appreciation for the importance of this has come to light. For example, I get firsthand accounts of what my children have learned at Sunday school or midweek small group from their adult leaders.

Ultimately, this has led me to be convinced once again of the pedagogical importance of Sunday school and small-group ministries. Moreover, the significance of the content of what we teach still holds important value. This is not to lessen the importance of how we interpret what we learn.

I was part of a cohort with fellow .slant33 writer Steve Argue recently where he discussed the pedagogical importance of context in learning (finding meaning in what we learn) as well as the content of what we are taught. After spending intentional but random time with my boys and asking them about what they “learned at church,” I realized that the content of what my volunteers are teaching may need some reinforcement, at the very least. Hence, this is one area where I think discussing theology can improve in my ministry and perhaps in youth ministry in general.

An area in which our youth ministry had to reshape itself a few years was our emphasis on having a solid account of what are the theological foundations of our volunteers and to equip them accordingly. Sure, all of our volunteers go to the same church, listen to the same preacher, and have opportunities to go to the same Sunday school classes. However, the lenses through which they interpret these teachings may shape their theologies differently. We certainly need to help our volunteers focus on small-group strategies, how to ask the right questions, and how to love our students. Nevertheless, equipping them for the important and ultimate task of teaching students about God should not be neglected.

I myself have found in our volunteer staff meetings that we talk about forgotten students, disgruntled parents, how to make small groups more inviting. Yet the discussions on what the volunteers are teaching are often not emphasized enough. Hence, our staff and volunteers have taken great steps in recent years to take more time to understand our personal and deep-rooted theological convictions and how that manifests itself in how and what we teach our students. Similarly, equipping our volunteers theologically has been an important value in our ministry.

Ultimately, depending on a church’s theological traditions and what theological teachings a youth ministry may want to teach and convey to students, considering and discussing theology with one’s volunteers and having a unified understanding of it is important. So when a student asks perplexing or imaginative questions like what is your perspective on predestination, abortion, drinking, hell, or suicide, our volunteers would have a theological basis from which to discuss these questions. Similarly, this helps our volunteers to realize that one of our ultimate goals is to teach the content so the context—or finding personal meaning and value in what each student learns—would subsequently be an ongoing process for our students. However, if we did not emphasize the theological foundations first as a youth ministry (staff and volunteers), then this process could easily become an afterthought.

Discussing theology with our volunteers and staff has also played another significant role. In having a deeper understanding of who God is and how he functions, and applying personal meaning to it, our volunteers have become more joyful servants and in turn have a deeper love for our students. For example, one of the theological values we emphasize and discuss among our volunteers is that we believe God changes people. That means volunteers don’t change people. Therefore, being equipped with this truth, our volunteers are more apt to trust God and have more compassion on those students who don’t seem like they are changing. In other words, our volunteers can understand that God has his own timing to change students’ lives, and they need not become discouraged or frustrated when students are not changing “fast enough.” Ultimately, in valuing, embracing, and discussing even such simple theological truths such as this one, our volunteers become greater and more effective servants.


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Dave Rahn


There are times when we could take great strides of improvement by not talking about theology in youth ministry. Of course, this possibility is itself a result of some theological reflection.

A number of years ago, while I was still a full-time professor, I noticed a disquieting gap in the preparation of our undergrad youth ministry students. They had taken required courses in systematic theology. Many had earned excellent grades in those courses. But I saw little evidence in my own classes that their exposure to theological knowledge resulted in any ability to think theologically about their youth ministry practices. Like too many youth ministers today, their answers to why they did what they did with young people ultimately defaulted to a vague positive assessment of their own personal experiences. They liked what they went through when they were in student ministry, and it seemed to work okay.

So the grandest suggestion I have for improving how we discuss theology in youth ministry is that we refrain from talking about anything in the abstract. If we fail to locate our conversations in the messy realities of our existence, then what we are doing is a theoretical exercise, one that may or may not bear any traceable or valuable fruit in our lives.

How fun to engage in some theological reflection about theological discussions! Notice how Paul coaches Timothy:

As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may command certain men not to teach false doctrines any longer, nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. These promote controversies rather than God’s work—which is by faith. The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. Some have wandered away from these and turned to meaningless talk. They want to be teachers of the law, but they do not know what they are talking about or what they so confidently affirm. (1 Timothy 1:3-7, NIV) Titus received a similar admonition (Titus 3:9-11). Clearly there are arenas of titillating conversation that should, as a matter of faithfulness to the Lord, be avoided. Why? Because they feed our egos, not the faith that subjugates our egos to the rule of Jesus. Knowledge is a Puff Daddy. It’s rendered useful if it can be linked to right living; otherwise, it is so much vapor in God’s values schema.

With all the caution cones I have tossed off my truck and onto the highway, I think I ought to confess that I teach an annual class that helps grad students think theologically in youth ministry. There is an entire world of possibilities when it comes to analyzing our youth ministry practices in the light of biblical truth. Take a quick spin through the second chapter of Paul’s letter to the Colossians to discover how many reflective bridges the apostle built between ministry activity and God’s Word. Far from not having anything to talk about, we who practice youth ministry ought to talk about the theological derivations, implications, and ramifications of everything we do. Here’s a sample, just to prime the pump:

• What role should parents play in your student ministry? What scriptural basis do you have for your position? Is that foundation applicable to all sorts of cases, or does it crumble when tested against the real-world realities of non-Christian or even abusive parents?

• Youth ministry is often known for its fun—have you worked out a theology of fun? What’s acceptable? What’s intolerable? What form of fun contributes to that which is most life giving and God honoring?

• Why do you meet as often or infrequently as you do? Are there any theological assumptions/commitments that are driving your meeting times, or are practical considerations your only real factor? And by the way, is there any theological warrant for challenging whether practical considerations should be the primary factor in our decision-making?

• How does your understanding of ecclesiology inform your youth ministry’s structure? Your student ministry’s connection with those who are older saints in the church? The way your young people engage their lost friends?

My greatest suggestion for theological discussions in youth ministry is that we talk more thoroughly and more candidly about all of our practices, seeking to discern biblical insights about them that can improve our faithfulness and please the Lord. I expect that such conversations can be as fruitful as the honesty and fidelity of our truth-searching allow.




Mike King


This is an extremely important question, not only for youth ministry and the spiritual formation of young people in our youth ministries; this is a critical question for the church and Christianity in North America.

The word theology combines two Greek words, theos (God) and logos (word, speech, or discourse). Theology, according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, is “the study of God and God's relation to the world.” Many Christians think theology is something that only seminary students engage in and what theologians do for a living.

Theology helps us understand what the Bible means. Theology shapes what we believe about God, about ourselves, about life, about death, and about the future. Theology is crucial to understanding prayer, why we pray, and what happens when we pray. Theology helps us wrestle with issues like evil and why bad things happen to good people. Theology is vital to discover the meaning and purpose of our lives.

In reality, every human being is a theologian. Unfortunately, most people—including those who profess faith in Jesus Christ—are not very good theologians. The reason we are not developing good theologians is the church’s lack of intentionality to develop good theologians.

The North American posture toward life and the meaning of “the good life” is dominated by pragmatism. Pragmatism is largely an American philosophy that holds the belief that “the meaning of conceptions is to be sought in their practical bearings, that the function of thought is to guide action, and that truth is preeminently to be tested by the practical consequences of belief.”

Pragmatism has a significant influence on theology in our culture. Pragmatism as an orientation toward life and meaning subverts theology and tends to focus primarily on human action. If divine action is acknowledged, it is mostly a formulaic response to human action. It is challenging to question the success of the Joel Osteens, T.D. Jakeses, and Rick Warrens of the church world. How dare we not acknowledge their accomplishments? Certainly they must be evidence of God’s favor, right?

Most youth workers have been wrestling with the findings of the National Study of Youth and Religion, a research project directed by Christian Smith, professor of sociology at the University of Notre Dame, and Lisa Pearce, assistant professor of sociology at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Smith uses the phrase moralistic therapeutic deism to describe the current religious mindset among young people today. Moralistic therapeutic deism is religious pragmatism writ large and is the result of very bad theology.

So what do we do to help young people become better theologians and engage in deeper theological reflection? We must become intentional about teaching young people to think theologically. We must create consistent opportunities for young people to participate in dialogue. We have to allow for dialectical tension. We must help young people embrace paradox. We must expose them to the great theological issues like election, sanctification, justification, atonement, sin, holiness, the nature of God, plus much more. We must deal with such questions as What does it mean to say God is triune, and why does it matter? If God is all powerful and good, why do bad things happen? Is the Bible from God or human beings, and is it inerrant, infallible, inspirational, or what? What really happened on the cross? and What does the resurrection of Jesus Christ mean for our future?

Theology helps us come to know what we think about God, and that shapes how we live. Theology will help young people form their identities and nurture their spirituality.

Most importantly, our theology should be Christocentric. Dietrich Bonhoeffer believed that theology begins in prayer and has Jesus Christ as the center of God’s revelation to human beings. Jesus Christ is God for us. Perhaps we should begin to improve our theological reflection in youth ministry by spending time answering slowly the three questions that form Bonhoeffer’s theology (as stated in Andy Root’s Revisiting Relational Youth Ministry: From A Strategy of Influence to a Theology of Incarnation).

1. Who is Jesus Christ?
2. Where is the living, active presence of Jesus Christ?
3. What then shall we do?

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/pragmatism


Mike King


The word justice and especially the phrase social justice have been in the media spotlight lately, thanks primarily to the culture wars and the attention-grabbing techniques of Glenn Beck. The issue of justice has been a focus of human beings since the beginning of recorded history. Often the issue of justice has forced Christians to determine where their primary allegiances lie—with God’s in-breaking kingdom or with political powers and national governments?

The prophet Micah declares in Micah 6:8, “He has told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Children of God are required to “do justice.”

One of the common phrases of children when they begin to interact with one another on playgrounds, neighborhoods, in social settings, schools, and especially among siblings is, “That’s not fair.”

“Studies at UCLA in 2008 have indicated that reactions to fairness are ‘wired’ into the brain... This is consistent with the notion that being treated fairly satisfies a basic need.’ 1 The issue of justice is a very important part of youth ministry and spiritual formation.

There are many ways the issue of justice has been classified. For instance: legal justice, commutative justice, procedural justice, criminal justice, social justice, punitive justice, restorative justice, universal justice, distributive justice, retributive justice, personal justice, supernatural justice, poetic justice, etc.

Instead of defining all the various forms and types of justice, I will respond to the question by suggesting two primary ways the issue and types of justice will impact your youth ministry.

1) Community Environment. The spirituality of your faith community is greatly influenced by how you deal with many of the different types of justice issues at work in your context. Let’s take the issue of punitive vs. restorative justice as an example. If your culture believes that those within your faith community must be punished (as an example for all) if they violate the group’s values, disobey Scripture, and/or make a serious mistake and sin, then you may be willing to lose a member of the community in order to maintain the group’s ethos and rules. Misguided punitive justice often relies on shame to recover and maintain a sense of order. Punitive justice focuses on the supposed need of the community to punish offenders. I’ve seen many young people in youth ministries significantly wronged and humiliated by unjust punitive justice.

Restorative justice, on the other hand, seeks to repair the wrongs and damages done and works to restore both victims and offenders. Often, restorative justice takes more time and is more complicated to accomplish, but the results are more in line with restoration and God’s redemptive mission. Allowing your environment to be shaped by grace and restorative justice will go a long way toward nurturing a faith community that is a safe place for all. Attempting to make things right for all is hard work but is essential for fostering Christian community.

2) Christian Formation. If we are going to be youth workers who make disciples who become lifelong followers of Jesus Christ, we must help the young people in our faith communities grasp the overarching mission of God. It is not possible to fully cooperate with God’s mission of redemption and restoration without doing justice, as the prophet Micah states in the above verse. The prophet Isaiah weighs in on the mission of Messiah in Isaiah 42:1-4.

“Here is my servant, whom I uphold, my chosen, in whom my soul delights; I have put my spirit upon him; he will bring forth justice to the nations. He will not cry or lift up his voice, or make it heard in the street; a bruised reed he will not break, and a dimly burning wick he will not quench; he will faithfully bring forth justice. He will not grow faint or be crushed until he has established justice in the earth.”

Jesus Christ will fully establish justice in the earth. As Christ’s disciples, we are to follow Jesus in the movement toward a just world. One of the biggest problems we face in the Christian church today is our propensity to mostly talk about justice. We talk about justice but rarely do justice. And yes, I’m talking about us, I’m talking about you, but mostly, I’m talking about me.

Last week our Youthfront staff watched the movie Romero together as a part of our monthly formational practice. The movie is about the life of Oscar Romero, who was appointed archbishop of San Salvador, El Salvador, during a tumultuous time in the 1970s. Great injustices were happening throughout the country, and the poor were being exploited, raped, and murdered. Archbishop Romero was assassinated because he was willing to stand up against gross injustice. The movie portrays many different ways individuals who claim to be Christians react to what is going on around them. The issue of what it means to “do justice” was the focus of our staff discussion. The questions we wrestled with following this film are still provoking our imaginations and dominating our conversations.

As youth workers, we must search our hearts and explore what it means to live cruciform lives. As we read the gospels and see the life of Jesus, we see the reality of God’s in-breaking kingdom. Jesus Christ is doing a new thing, and it is this way of life that God is calling us to lean into. This is the way of life we invite young people to embrace. I believe it is a life that moves toward shalom and a world made right, a cause that young people might be willing to lay down their lives for.

1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Justice#cite_ref-4


 

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Living Justice: Revolutionary Compassion in a Broken World






Steve Argue


Recently I was with a group of youth pastors and senior pastors reflecting on the topic, What is a question that can only be answered by the youth pastor and the senior pastor together? I’ve been pondering that conversation and came up with what I think is an important question: Who are the people we exclude?

The injustice of reaching out without welcoming in. Often in ministry conversations, there inevitably comes a point where the topic turns toward “outreach” or “reaching” someone. For deeply theological reasons (both redemptive and sometimes dangerous), many churches feel compelled to reach out toward someone, somewhere. What is often missed, however, is that if a faith community reaches out, there also must be a complimentary and equally high value of welcoming in.

Within the physical walls of churches, ministries have reached out to kids, students, and emerging adults, providing them with programs and pastors. These initiatives have often created a silo effect, where the groups reached end up entrapped and still unwelcome in other parts of the community. Consider the main service and the many looks they get when kids act like kids and students dress like students. Similarly, how many youth pastors have touted parents as the primary disciplers of their kids (inaccurately quoting Deuteronomy 6), while systematically excluding them from all youth ministry programming, except to ensure they pay for ever-rising mission trips? Reaching is valued. Welcoming is not.

In an odd sort of way, church programs designed for specific groups (especially young people) become ghettos of segregation, contradicting Jesus’ prayer for the people of God to be one. Something is wrong when adults want to populate their church with the next generation as long as they don’t touch anything and when youth pastors want parental support while excluding parents from their thinking, relationships, and programming.

Thus, the question remains for our faith communities, Whom do we exclude? Where are the lines drawn within one’s own church? And might the very structure, assumptions, and spirit of our faith communities be the walls that feign outreach but actually communicate, Keep out? When we reach out without welcoming in, we perpetuate the injustice of exclusion.

The injustice of preserving distance between your space and our space. Beyond local congregations, churches attempt to reach out to the poor, needy, and oppressed. I commend the good work done across the street and around the world. My only concern is that most of the people whom churches reach out to remain conveniently “out there.” When we reach out, we can be generous and compassionate on our terms, in our time frame, away from our place. How many of the poor, needy, and oppressed are actually welcome in our churches and homes? I know the issue is more complicated, but the simply perpetuated message of separation exists where: We will reach out to your space, but you are not welcome in our space.

Sadly, many churches are known more for what they are against, welcoming people as long as they’re “just like us.” Emerging adults often feel like strangers in their own home churches and are accused of leaving; single men and women are often overlooked because they don’t fit into a traditional family; and the marginalized of all kinds find sparse connection. Whom do we exclude?

Whether internal segregation or external separation, churches can have a welcoming problem that contradicts the nature and purposes of God. Throughout the biblical narrative, we see God as one who pursues and calls people, committing to be their God; who comes near through incarnation; who extends God’s love to all, engrafting outsiders, calling them “my people,” “my friends,” “my co-heirs,” and “my children.” We are a people who have been welcomed, empowered to welcome.

These are not easy issues to work through, but the level of difficulty cannot dictate the level of necessity. Faith communities’ inability to welcome the “other” typically has little to do with espoused theology and doctrine and has more to do with fear of the unknown, love of power, and resistance to change, fueling postures to keep the other “out there.” I’m not saying everyone in our faith communities is intentionally cruel, but many may be unaware of these injustices, blinded by their majority lenses. In either case, “reached” outsiders remain excluded and unwelcomed.

Senior pastors and youth pastors must work together to communicate a consistent posture of welcoming that will take more resolve, dedication, and sacrifice than any mission trip or outreach program. For it will call us to change us, more than them, to be we.

The reason I am a follower of Jesus is that someone welcomed me in. Yes, even me. This is the beautifully overwhelming, barrier-breaking, system-crushing grace that God offers to all. It’s a justice issue that must be owned by senior pastors and youth pastors together. It’s a justice issue that declares that, as we seek to change the world, our worlds may need the first changing.




Dave Rahn


Justice originates with a set of standards; a code; the law. The notion that there are various forms or types of justice implies that there may be different rules that apply to different contexts. This reminds me a bit of the construct of intelligence and research by Howard Gardner and others to make the case for multiple, domain-specific intelligences. Are we better served by looking at justice through categorical filters (e.g., economic, political, or racial) or by thinking of it as a holistic concept like that which is freighted by the Hebrew word shalom?

We live in a day when the social construction of knowledge is all the rage. Morality can be defined without the need to establish a first cause or authority. My own doctoral research was embedded in this wing of social science. The moral domain is defined by universal obligations that people agree are right or wrong regardless of circumstance, situations, or culture. The conventional domain acknowledges that there are some contexts where matters of right and wrong are of a different quality, rooted in legitimately acknowledged authority, and regulated by a source that can alter the standards at any time.

So it’s always wrong to hit other children so as to hurt them (moral), but it’s only wrong to chew gum in class if the teacher says it’s wrong. And Mrs. Snider, my paddle-wielding, second-grade teacher at William Carr Elementary, made it clear always that chomping was impermissible in her presence.

Please forgive my short detour into an area of obscure inquiry that I lived in 20 years ago while pursuing my PhD. I am convinced that the social forces interested in exploring a relativistic basis for knowledge have only accelerated in the last two decades. Years ago, the quest for truth was at the heart of all questions of morality and justice. Today’s discussions pursue such wisdom without any need to anchor it in notions of absolute truth that can be known, however imperfectly.

So I return to my original question about the question. How is it somehow better to divvy up justice into assigned analytical categories for improved practical use if that guidance is as weightless as anything that spins away from its gravitational orbit? Can you tell I’m concerned about self-referential justice, even that which is cloaked in community consensus as “self?”

I have only the desire to know and live more thoroughly according to justice as defined by the rule of God our King. Hundreds of detailed Torah regulations did not bring about this justice. The Ten Commandments also failed to usher God’s people into justly living communities. Even the great commandments, reduced to two huge summary pursuits that allow us to affix them to our bumper stickers, do not give us power to live justly. But when God graciously saved me and dispatched his Holy Spirit to live within me—well, I’ve got a fighting chance to actually make a difference.

And so I’m not interested in expanding my circle of concern unless I can keep my circle of influence from shrinking (thanks, Covey). I live in a small town that has a history of racial bigotry. I became part of a multi-ethnic church plant over five years ago, driving 35 minutes each way to participate in this fellowship. For me to love my black and brown brothers and sisters better—and to experience more love—my wife and I would probably need to relocate.

But we are not called to live in another community; we are called to live in this broken Indiana town and be salt and light. And so, for now, our Sunday church excursions fortify my resolve to live justly in our hometown. And, though it may seem like a woefully small and insignificant response, we have resolutely chosen to pay whatever the pump price is at the community’s ethnic-owned gas station so we can contribute to a welcoming atmosphere reflective of the shalom of God.

This little move is one that my blue-collar neighbors understand. It takes a page out of John’s epistle: We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother (1 John 4:19-21). It tips toward doing something where I live—that makes a difference now—rather than talk about injustices where I do not live.

I am drawn to justice in reality; actions I take because I am compelled to be faithful in my obedience to the Lord Jesus. All else is another type of hype, and I frankly fear being distracted from acting on what I know I should do by wondering about what else could be done. With Paul, I want to live up to what I’ve already attained (Philippians 3:16).


Mike King


Since I am in my 36th year of vocational youth ministry, I can respond to this question from the scope of my own experience. Evangelism was the primary focus of my early youth ministry efforts. To give more context to my evangelistic journey, see the September 7, 2010, Slant33 post. In the late ’70s and through the ’80s I gave little thought to any theological implications concerning the hard-hitting, strong-armed, manipulative, bait-and-switch, hellfire tactics I engaged in to get kids “saved.” Throughout the 1990s, this style of evangelism became increasingly disturbing, not only to me but also to hundreds of youth workers in my social network.

There are many reasons the practice of evangelism and the posture toward evangelism have changed so much in the last three decades. I’d like to think the primary reason for the change in my thinking about evangelism has been driven by deeper theological reflection concerning soteriology and ecclesiology. What does it mean to experience salvation? What role does becoming a disciple of Jesus Christ play in evangelism and salvation? How is evangelism connected to church? How does our society view proselytizing? What role does apologetics play in evangelism? How do we define apologetics in our current culture? These questions are really important, and the answers to these questions have dramatically impacted the issue of how evangelism is taught and practiced.

I strongly believe that the gospel, which means “good news,” has been defined and communicated in ways that has led to the good news not being genuinely and intuitively perceived as good news by most people outside the church. One of the reasons for this negative reaction has been the framing of the proclamation of our story of the gospel around a primary emphasis on how wicked and sinful human beings are.

We mistakenly corrupt the good news by starting the story of humanity in Genesis 3, with the fall. Yes, human beings are broken, but the story of humanity begins in Genesis 1, with God creating human beings in the image of God. Let’s tell the whole story! The idea that we have to place a hyper focus on our sinfulness in order to get people to respond to our evangelistic techniques does not work in our culture.

Several months ago I was verbally assaulted in a coffee shop by a young man involved in a college ministry who wanted to evangelize me. He started by asking if he could ask me a few questions that wouldn’t take more than “a couple minutes” of my time. His first question was, “Are you a good person?” I knew immediately where this was going. I replied, “Yes, I think I’m a good person.” He asked me if I was married. “Yes, for 35 years to my best friend.” His next question was, “Have you ever cheated on your wife?”

I told him that I found his question, 30 seconds into our conversation, to be quite inappropriate and personal. For the sake of the conversation, I explained to him that my wife is the only woman I have ever been intimate with. He then proceeded to find a variety of ways to prove that I really was a bad person who certainly had lusted after other women and was therefore an adulterer (based on Jesus’ Beatitudes) who had no hope unless I prayed a prayer that he had written up, ready for vile sinners to recite. This came with the promise that I wouldn’t have to spend eternity in hell.

Being the fatherly person I’ve become and because of my love for college-age young people, I spent more than an hour engaging in a theological and biblical discussion with him. His head was spinning, but I could tell that his heart was opening to imagine a more Christian way to share and live the good news. He had been assigned to travel a half hour away from his church to do evangelism. I explained to him that he was in the neighborhood of my church community and that we were engaged deeply with people on a regular basis. I asked him if he were to lead someone to Jesus Christ, would he come back to build a relationship and disciple the new convert, or would that be the last time he would see that person? He acknowledged that he was only focused on getting people to “pray the prayer.”

This zealous, well-intentioned young man wanted to get people to believe what he believed about salvation, sin, and Jesus Christ. This methodology focuses on the progression of Believe, behave, and belong. If we can just get people to believe the gospel, they will begin behaving properly, and eventually they can belong to our churches.

When I think about how evangelism has changed in the last three decades, I think that the progression of Believe-Behave-Belong has shifted to Belong-Behave-Believe. God has instituted the church to bear witness to the glory of God and (like Israel) be a blessing to the world. Evangelism happens quite naturally when we are entrenched in faith communities that are actively caught up in cooperating with God’s compelling work of restoration—restoration between people and God; between people and their own brokenness; between people and other people; and restoration of all creation.

As our God invites us into the divine fellowship of the Trinity, so we should invite people to join us in community. In my church, we are intentional about being actively engaged in our community and inviting people to come join us, even before they believe or really know what to believe. In fact, they often actually begin behaving like Christians before they really grasp (believe) what it means to be a Christian. We engage in activities of justice that people want to participate in. We also embody hospitality. We throw parties and tell stories of love, life, transformation, and hope. Evangelism happens naturally when God’s people live astonishing lives as people of crucifixion and resurrection. We must recapture the essence of the gospel story that is truly good news for all who hear and see it.

Recently I have seen the following quote used frequently in blogs and books. This description of Christians, written in the late second or early third century, is found in the Epistle to Diognetus.

“For the Christians are distinguished from other people neither by country, nor language, nor the customs which they observe. For they neither inhabit cities of their own, nor employ a peculiar form of speech, nor lead a life, which is marked out by any singularity. The course of conduct, which they follow, has not been devised by any speculation or deliberation of inquisitive people; nor do they, like some, proclaim themselves the advocates of any merely human doctrines. But, inhabiting Greek as well as barbarian cities, according as the lot of each of them has determined, and following the customs of the natives in respect to clothing, food, and the rest of their ordinary conduct, they display to us their wonderful and confessedly striking way of life. They dwell in their own countries, but simply as sojourners. As citizens, they share in all things with others, and yet endure all things as if foreigners.”1

This quote is consistent with the narrative in the book of Acts that describes Christians as a community of people who do astonishing things. The citizens of Jerusalem viewed Christians favorably because they were generous people who demonstrated love and concern for their neighbors along with proclaiming the great good news. As a result, people were being added to the church every day. Christians who are lovers of people and bearers of a story that is perceived as good news by those outside Christianity create a compelling environment for evangelism. Embodied Christianity creates a portal to salvation and the church.

1 Translated by Alexander Roberts and James Donaldson, Ante-Nicene Church Library, Edinburgh 1867, Volume 1, pg. 307.





Lilly Lewin


Well, the scary thing is that I actually remember three decades ago and remember how we were doing evangelism back in the dark ages of the ’80s. As a high school and college student, I really wanted people to know Jesus, and I really didn’t believe that only people with “the gift” were the ones called to evangelize. Honestly, though, I never believed I had the gift, and I was much more about relational evangelism than the in-your-face kind. As a college student, I was in student leadership in Intervarsity Christian Fellowship at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. IVCF had a more relational approach to outreach and evangelism through small groups and mission trips, and that fit my personality better than cold calling or passing out tracts with the four spiritual laws written on them.

During my college years, my IVCF group sponsored a campus-wide outreach called Reason to Live that had nightly large-group gatherings in the basketball arena, packed out each night with students and faculty. Billy Graham was the speaker, but we only did an altar call on the last night, and we didn’t call it a crusade because, even back then, we felt that word was a negative.

The problem was long-term follow up. It too often didn’t happen. We told people the good news, asked them to receive Jesus, and had them “pray the prayer.” And then we left. We didn’t help these newbies learn to live out their faith or walk through the hard parts of the Christian life. And much too often, we didn’t talk about the hard parts at all. Sadly, after Reason to Live, our leadership team was so tired and we’d been working so hard for so long, that we didn’t follow up with many of the folks who actually filled out their little commitment cards.

Street preaching was also a part of campus life. Often you’d walk by at lunch and find a student preaching in the Pit outside the student union. The “preacher” got lots of hecklers but also a lot of listeners too. Last year, on the University of Cincinnati campus, a street preacher was confronted by the Christians on campus rather than the not-yet Christians. The Christians were verbally challenging the street preacher because they felt he wasn’t really preaching the love of God or forgiveness but a lot of legalistic condemnation, and they were discouraged by his style. This preacher didn’t care for dialogue.

There was an openness to the name Christian a couple decades ago that has been lost, thanks to negative press and negative impressions and comic stereotypes of believers in film and on TV. The impression of Christians, especially evangelical Christians, is that they are negative, judgmental, anti-everything, and this has shut down the openness of conversation on the street. People are skeptical, jaded, and a lot more afraid of fanatics. But they are also hungry to be listened to and to have authentic relationship. They just don’t want to be slam-dunked with Bible verses.

And since fewer and fewer people have biblical memory, it’s important not to make assumptions that someone actually knows John 3:16 or anything about the story of Nicodemus. Thus, in 2010, we have to start a lot farther back than we did in the 1980s. Even kids who have grown up in church don’t necessarily get that they have to respond to Jesus’ invitation and receive his gift of salvation. It’s more important than ever to take time with people and help them hear the story and learn how their own stories intersect God’s story.

Another change I’ve experienced in the world of evangelism is the difference between contemporary church and traditional church. Where many contemporary churches provide opportunities to accept Christ on a regular basis, more traditional churches rarely give their members the opportunity to accept Christ as their savior. They have you join the church, but there isn’t a traditional an altar call, so no one is ever invited to make a decision for Jesus. There is never an up-front “ask.” The assumption seems to be that if people want it, they’ll ask for it themselves.

But if we don’t ever ask the question, how will they even know there is a question? “Have you invited Jesus to be the Lord of your life? Have you received him as your Savior?”

Too often in the past, we led people through these questions but didn’t really stop to consider the consequences of accepting Jesus as Savior. It’s not all roses and perfection or big houses and fancy cars. Following God is hard work and can be painful.

What I see as most important in this age of relative truth is that I/we are living out our faith and actually loving people and serving them regardless of their response! Even if they are different from us, even when we are tired. Remembering that the way, the truth, and the life are Jesus—a person, not a doctrine. Faith in Jesus is a relationship, not just a belief system or a list of rules. And contrary to popular belief, the Holy Spirit is still at work and hasn’t lost any power! Now, that’s exciting!

People in 2010 want a holistic Christianity. They want to see how being a Christian actually makes a difference in one’s life now, not just in eternity. People in 2010 are focused on the present and how they are living now, not where they will be when they die. And people aren’t really worried as much about where they will go when they die. At least, not younger people. They are worried about getting into college and actually finding a job after that. Or whether they even want to go to college because what’s the point anyway? Everything seems so messed up. There is a real lack of hope.

Our emphasis needs to be different. It needs to be about living life to its fullest now, not just for eternity. And helping ourselves and others discover how to do this—doing it together in community!

Caring about what people need, learning who they are, not just dumping the Bible verses on them. Unlike in the ’80s, the question Where would you go, if you died tonight? is extremely outdated.

So in this new decade, I’m working on living missionally and building relationships with those I’d like to see experience the kingdom and know the King.




Dave Rahn


Evangelism has, apparently, embarrassed too many people in the Western church over the past few decades. A casual tour through any Christian bookstore reveals that this is a subject matter for the faithful that is out of favor. There isn’t much interest in marketing or teaching on the topic.

The salient feature of evangelism centers around proclaiming the gospel of Jesus Christ. The good news is that salvation is available to any person on the planet because God loved us enough to step into history as a Jewish baby born in Bethlehem who would ultimately and willingly die on a first-century Roman torture device so that our sin need no longer separate us from God. The facts of this storyline were originally professed by hundreds of people whose faith in Jesus Christ so profoundly transformed their lives that they, in turn, changed their world. Many died as martyrs so that the truth of a resurrected Christ and hope of salvation could be known everywhere. They believed that the stakes of making this gospel known were worth forfeiting their lives.

Their faith in Jesus meant that they had acquired a new perspective on their earthly existence and were convinced that death no longer held any power over them. This freedom propelled them, and millions of Christ followers since, to fearless missionary efforts. They established communities of believers who could encourage one another for the task at hand—to make the one true God known to the nations.

Evangelism was and is the communication function assigned to the church. To be effective, it depends on the integrity of God’s people. The early church lived as compelling witnesses so that when they testified about the necessity of faith in Jesus they were not dismissed for incongruent lifestyles. They walked their talk, oftentimes gaining a favorable hearing from others due to the sheer attractiveness of their courage, dedication, and selfless, sacrificial love. It was clear that Jesus not only was their inspirational model, he fortified them with his indwelling power and constant presence.

I wonder if there aren’t a couple of distressing reasons that evangelism is no longer an urgent agenda for many churches. First, in our postmodern, truth-is-relative culture, are we still convinced that humans are utterly lost in their sin? Much of today’s preaching seems to deal with the common pain of our existence, certainly an issue the gospel addresses. But navigating the difficulties and trials of what life tosses at us is very different from zeroing in on our own culpability as sinners who cause damage because we are broken and incapable of self-repair.

A second fear I have is that many nominal Christians do not believe in the exclusive claims of Jesus Christ for salvation. There are sophisticated theologians who have painstakingly argued for nuanced ways to affirm that we are saved through Christ even if our faith is (mis)placed in some other source. It seems to me that this shifts the salvific burden to the quality of our faith rather than the certainty of Jesus Christ and the sole sufficiency of his redemptive work on our behalf. In any case, such inclusivity (at best) or universalism (at worst) certainly reduces the burden of our own evangelistic faithfulness.

I’m now prepared to offer a short and disturbing response to the question of the day. As someone who has walked with Jesus for 40 years, it’s my perspective that evangelism has changed over the past two or three decades. If we are truly dispossessed of convictions about how thoroughly sin wrecks everyone or how faith in Jesus Christ is the only solution to our lostness, it is easy to understand why evangelism is not the priority it once was in our churches. This shift in evangelism is not good.

There is one more factor at work, and I am sympathetic to how far-reaching it is for Christians today. We are increasingly “word weary” and do not, collectively, walk the talk as followers of Jesus. Evangelism of a few decades ago concentrated so much on getting the propositional truths of the gospel packaged well for delivery and understanding that we began to acquire a verbal formulaic faith. Our subsequent church structures and forms have been built to reinforce this pseudo-faith. We have bred Christians who may be strong in confession but weak in observable Christlike character. As a result, evangelism-as-explanation is left without Exhibit A.

Two streams of evangelistic approaches have evolved from this unhealthy landscape over the past few decades. One seeks to verbally steer would-be converts away from considering the poor evidence presented in the lifestyles of contemporary western followers of Christ. The other seeks to counter our image as slick talkers by shutting up and living well.

I view this shift in evangelism as a corrective and one that we still may not have dialed in just right.


What are the three best books you have read on evangelism and why?

Chris Folmsbee


Three books come to mind in a hurry. (1) Evangelism after Christendom: The Theology and Practice of Christian Witness, by Bryan Stone;
(2) The Celtic Way of Evangelism: How Christianity Can Reach the West…Again, by George Hunter III; and
(3) More Ready Than You Realize: Evangelism as Dance in the Postmodern Matrix, by Brian McLaren.

Each of these books has inspired, challenged, and equipped me. When I read a book, that’s what I want to happen to me. I want to be stirred within and see new, imaginative possibilities; I want to be pushed and stretched in my current modes of thought and outfitted with realistic ideas and practices that I can contextualize within my own community. Each of these books has done that for me.

Regarding Evangelism after Christendom: The Theology and Practice of Christian Witness, I feel that this book is first theological then methodological, which I love. I am all for methods but love when they are rooted in rich theological meaning. The book isn’t particularly practical (it wasn’t meant to be), but it does lay a comprehensible biblical foundation for evangelism and puts forth a stout framework for everyday practice around common themes such as hospitality, presence, justice, peace, reconciliation, etc. I also found this book to be thrilling on one hand and crazy scary on the other. Thrilling in the sense that I am able to see what could be, should the church live out the intended ways of God. I found the book to be scary in the sense that I realized how much of my own life has to change in order to be a faithful witness.

The Celtic Way of Evangelism is one of my all-time favorite books on evangelism simply because of its candor and simplicity. It certainly isn’t a simplistic book, but it does confront the church’s need for a new kind of evangelism head on in a no-nonsense way that elicits immediate action. You can’t read this book, agree with even some of it, and not change your life and practices accordingly.

I haven’t read this book for some time, but I remember two key elements of new thinking for me. The first element is a comparison between the Roman way of evangelism and the Celtic way. In short, the Roman way is based on a presentation followed by a call for a decision, and then community with the people one is evangelizing comes later. The Celtic model begins with community, continues with conversation, and then leads to an invitation to commit to the Christian faith. I found this model comparison relevant to the church and culture some time ago when I read it. I still find this model relevant to the way in which the church and culture co-exist and converse, toward intermingling, no doubt. The second element I found helpful is the concept of “soul friend” (anamchara) in the Celtic way of community formation. A soul friend is a peer who aids you in your spiritual formation. We need soul friends! Spiritual formation happens in community.

Finally, More Ready Than You Realize helped me see past some of my own junk as it related to my view of evangelism. As with The Celtic Way of Evangelism, it has been a while since I have read it, I remember being moved by two things in particular. First, the book helps event-based thinkers move away from the idea that salvation is a moment rather than a process. I found this book helpful to give to volunteers in my ministry for this reason. Second, the book follows the narrative of a person, and out of the relationship the author has with this person, the ideas of evangelism are brought about. I much prefer engaging concepts about evangelism within the context of a narrative, rather than mere opinions and conjecture.

This book is great for helping people come along in their view of personal and corporate witness; moving them away from static—and often stagnant—practice of faith sharing and toward a dynamic and relevant practice driven by authentic community. I also like the author’s metaphor of evangelism as dance, as opposed to a wrestling match that we are trying to win.


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Mike King


I have probably spent more time contemplating this question than any other Slant33 post I have written. I must confess a couple of things before I attempt a response. The first two decades of ministry for me were focused primarily on youth evangelism. I taught evangelism. I did evangelism. I was called a “youth evangelist.” Man, do I have stories! The last couple years of those first two decades were spent struggling with the concept that I had been taught and had embraced concerning how evangelism was to be done.

That 20-year period was followed by a decade of shifting my focus to discipleship and a process of de-emphasizing evangelism, especially the kind I had engaged in within my youth ministry praxis. This timeline now brings me to around three years ago, when my passion for evangelism returned. I believe a combination of factors (Holy Spirit, conversation partners, theology, church, experiences, Scripture) fueled my passion, imagination, and calling to begin reengaging in evangelism again, though from a much broader theological perspective and different methodology.

As I reflect on my early practice of evangelism, I remember how uncomfortable it was to find a way to make sure people knew they were sinners headed for hell. I whipped myself with the reminder that I was not to be ashamed of the gospel. In spite of the self-motivation and self-condemnation for lacking the faith and courage to boldly let people know they were presently doomed, the attempts to remove my discomfort never worked. It just seemed wrong.

I’ve discovered gradually over the last three years that the problem was my insistence to do what many evangelicals do—start the story of humanity in Genesis 3 instead of Genesis 1. We start with the fall instead of the creation of human beings imago Dei by a loving Creator. I have found it not only easier but also more human and natural to engage in unforced conversation that, most of the time, unfolds into a delightful opportunity to bear witness to every human being’s connection to the imago Dei.

I have found it a joy to be a blessing to people and make the connection to unique ways they are cooperating with God regardless, of whether they know it. It is also amazing how often the reality of people’s brokenness comes up naturally—except it’s not me but the non-believer bringing it up. I have amazing stories of sharing the good news of Jesus Christ with people who actually respond as if the gospel is actually good news.

Well that is the introduction for my answer. I wanted to give you my context so it might make sense to you when I answer this question by saying, I don’t know. I don’t currently have an answer to the question concerning “the three best books” on this subject. But I will make a few suggestions that you can consider along with me.

My first suggestion is The Celtic Way of Evangelism: How Christianity Can Reach The West…Again, by George Hunter (Abingdon). Dr. Hunter is the dean of world mission and evangelism at Asbury Theological Seminary. I have traveled to Ireland and Scotland extensively and have explored the monastic outposts of the Celtic evangelists who converted Ireland, Scotland, England, and Wales. I am intrigued by the story of these ancient evangelists who converted a very pagan culture to Christianity. This is fascinating history. To study this more, I would also recommend author and historian Thomas Cahill, who wrote the bestselling book How the Irish Saved Civilization. In addition to evangelizing a whole culture, they also kept western culture alive by preserving classic western literature.

A couple of books that are important theological considerations for the issue of evangelism are Transforming Mission: Paradigm Shifts in Theology of Mission, by David Bosch and The Gospel in a Pluralist Society, by Lesslie Newbigin.

Another recommendation is Ancient-Future Evangelism: Making Your Church a Faith-Forming Community, by Robert Webber. Additionally, I suggest Webber’s fourth title in the Ancient-Future series, called The Divine Embrace: Recovering the Passionate Spiritual Life, because I think one of the most important issues involved in recovering a compelling environment for evangelism is for Christians to live passionate Christian lives, following Jesus Christ with fervent devotion and deep spiritual intimacy with God.

Dave Rahn


My three favorite books on evangelism are those that have helped me clearly articulate paradigm shifts that affected me personally and through which I have tried to lead others. Others may have written about these subjects better; but these books were seminal perspective changers for me.

As a young man who was not really engaged with the church growing up, my coming to put my faith in Christ was marked by a moment in time. Not surprisingly, my earliest understanding of evangelism was to seek conversion decisions from others. Robert Coleman’s The Master Plan of Evangelism stunned me by introducing me to overwhelming evidence that embedded Jesus’ evangelism efforts in the center of his disciple-making strategies. Since reading that book in college, I have continued to resist forms of decisionalism that reduce evangelism’s goal to securing a prayer commitment from someone. These approaches threaten disciple making as a process that brings about fruit of character transformation and reproduction.

This is not to say that decisions for Christ are not intricately connected to the formation of a disciple. It is, rather, to understand evangelism as targeting the process that leads one to initially decide to become a follower of Jesus Christ—the first in a lifetime of decisions that must be navigated well if we are to live as those who bring honor to God.

The burden of carrying the weight of responsibility for evangelism’s fruit troubled me considerably in the early part of my career with Youth for Christ. That’s when I read J.I. Packer’s Evangelism and the Sovereignty of God. As someone who tilted toward the Arminian side of free-will discussions, I could never understand why a Calvinist would even participate in the evangelism enterprise. This book introduced me to a picture of a high and holy God who draws his people into a mission that is for his glory. I came to understand evangelism as an important aspect of living all of my life in obedience to the Father. And the most important practical benefit was that I began to grasp the idea that God is the only one who can bring about the true fruit of a transformed life. There is incredible rest in this reality, without reducing the urgency of my need to be faithful all the time to a God who loves me deeply.

The third book is Joe Aldrich’s Lifestyle Evangelism. It came at a time when I struggled with tools that would help me coach the many volunteers in our ministry, most of whom were not inclined by gifts or disposition to practice proclamational or confrontational evangelism. Not only does Aldrich make the biblical case for why each of us is to be actively involved in evangelism, he instructs us how we can do so by putting the rightful priority on living as salt and light. Even more intriguing is the concept of how churches often breed “professional weaker brothers” who effectively squelch the freedoms of those who otherwise could move into relationship with non-churched people. It’s safe to say that the seeds of this book found their way into the YFC 3Story philosophy and curriculum we use today.

Honorable mention for me is the book Persuasion, by Em Griffin. His application of communication research to the task of evangelism profoundly affected me and probably helped form the passion for one of my own books. For many years as an academic I asserted that I would not write a book unless I could make an original contribution. Evangelism Remixed (which I co-authored with Terry Linhart) is the result of researching the factors that are present when adults raise up students who influence others for Christ. I consider this book to be an important extension of what I learned from Coleman, Packer, and Aldrich, with Em Griffin lemon-twisted on the side.


What are some critical things to remember when leading teams? 

Steve Argue


I can only speak from what I’ve discovered with my teams, and hopefully it will inspire something for you. These are in no particular order to these since I believe each, in some way, informs the others.

A team is more than its individuals. There’s a tremendous difference between a group of people who individually divide up their work to accomplish a task and a group that works together toward something more. The former can produce excellent yet disjointed tasks that remain looking like a wall full of sticky notes. The latter evokes a budding art form that surprises everyone as it takes on a life of its own. One of the hardest things to do is encourage teams to move through individualistic (often brilliant) patterns into the realm where efforts and personalities create something that no one can create on his own. This process takes time and is certainly less efficient, requiring leadership that protects the process.

Process is more important than product. I don’t mean to be extreme (maybe I do). I’ve experienced too many teams complete tasks only to end up more unhealthy, more burned out, and more at odds with each other than when they began. Somehow the process got the product done but killed everyone in the meantime. I believe attention to the process nurtures transformation more than an end product. It’s where the members make meaning of their experiences and are challenged to reframe success beyond end results.

Often, this is where dysfunction is confronted—even the “beneficial” dysfunctions like workaholism, self-promotion, isolationism, or guilt/fear motivations. There are goals within the goal that surface as people get closer to a project, to each other, and to oneself. Leadership creates space for each person to reflect on how he is making sense of the project’s multiple layers, resisting internal and external pressures to merely produce. The end results, then, are celebration and formation, not merely checking something off the list and reinforcing dysfunction in the name of “efficiency” or worse, “ministry.”

Words, writing, and language matter. I get grief from my peers and teams for being a document guy. I like to write things down so my teams get the full context of my ideas. It’s through documents that others can interact with my ideas, improving them, making them better so an idea moves from becoming mine to ours. My goal is that, when our teams talk about research, ministry philosophy, or theological concepts, we all have a clear sense of what we mean and where we’re going together. Words, writing, and language become pathways toward dialogue rather than one-way orders or defensive walls. This requires great trust in each other to put an idea (and ego!) out there to be critiqued and changed, hoping and believing that dialogue is always better than monologue.

Reading, thinking, and discourse are crucial. My team also gives me a hard time for perpetually sending them articles I think will help them think about their interests. My hope is that they remember they’re part of a bigger conversation that’s happening around us. What’s fun is that I’m now receiving articles from my teammates. Maybe it’s payback, or maybe our team is developing the discipline of keeping an eye on this broader landscape of the conversation. And here’s my most hopeful secret—I believe they have something to add to the conversation. Watch for their articles. They’re coming…

Delegating is stupid. Go ahead and quote Jethro’s advice to Moses, but don’t use this as a support for delegation. Delegation often becomes a buzzword for leaders passing off things they don’t like to do, which is not encouraging to team members. True delegation (if we must use that term) is more about a leader admitting limitation, trusting others, and nurturing others’ callings. It is a posture of trust, not a posture of power. When you “delegate,” may you not only delegate task but also the authority that goes with it. May the receiver of delegation know that a new responsibility has been given to him because he is believed in and his contribution will help the team and his own next steps of personal growth. Any other sort of delegation that is shortsighted or last minute is stupid. If you doubt this, when you ask your teammates to do something, do they look up (pick me!), or look down (please don’t pick me)?

Teams can “lead” themselves. A final thought is that leaders of teams have a role, but there is a greater corrective, and that is when a team leads itself; when quality is shared; when everyone is supportive; when help is asked for; when challenge is done in love; when there is laughter along the way; when each person is changing for the better. Then, something’s happening. The best thing a leader can often do is use her power to clear the way (time, resource, encouragement, etc.) to let things happen and allow the team to become just that—a team.

As I reflect on my list, one common theme I see is that my crucials are not quick fixes. Most are process-oriented postures that challenge me to commit to the long haul, to resist short-term success, to patiently nurture space for individual and group transformation. It’s the team that matters. Not me.

Jim Hampton


As one who has led teams now for more than 25 years, I wish I could say that every team I’ve led has been a resounding success story, but I’d be lying. What I can say is that the longer I do this, the better I become at it. In the case of leading teams, experience really has been the best teacher.

That said, let me offer two suggestions I have found particularly helpful in leading ministry teams. (My focus will be on leading the team itself, rather than recruiting the team. Slant 33 did a series of articles on recruiting previously that can be found here.

Take time to build relationships with the other members of the team. Some of us are so task oriented that we too often see team members as extra appendages of our bodies. Just give them a task to do and set them loose is our thinking.

However, that is a terribly misguided notion. We have to remember that the members of our team are people; people who crave relationships and who often work best in the context of community support and encouragement. When we fail to truly get to know others (their families and life situations, their passions, their walks with God, their talents and abilities, etc.), then we end up treating them as objects to fulfill our needs rather than seeing them as people made in the image of God who have valuable things to offer the team and the kingdom. Relationships should always precede tasks.

Building relationships with the other members of the team also allows you to build trust. The more you know about them, the more you can trust them. Similarly, the more they know about you, the more they can trust you. I discovered that when your team members know you are for them, they are much more willing to assume your decisions are for the best, even if they don’t always understand the why behind them. Without this type of trust, you can easily be misperceived in your decisions and direction. As a colleague of mine is fond of saying, “An action uninterpreted is an action misunderstood.” When we build this type of relationship with our team members, we become better at communicating the actions we are taking as a leader and explaining why we are taking them.

When I was a local church youth pastor, we did many things to encourage the building of relationships. We had monthly sponsor meetings, where the focus of the first 30-45 minutes was simply food and fellowship. I found that during this time, people would talk about what was going on in their lives. It became a wonderful time as people shared with each other, often taking time to stop and pray with and for each other.

We also tried to offer an annual sponsor retreat each fall. It was a lot of work to get enough volunteers to cover all the Sunday school classes, small groups, and other youth ministry positions that would normally be needed during a weekend. But I found it incredibly fruitful when we could gather all of our youth ministry workers and spend a weekend playing together, dreaming together, and planning for the upcoming year. As part of our worship times together, our adult workers learned that their community was the body of youth workers, and they learned to lean on each other the rest of the year.

Put people in positions to succeed, and then empower them to do so. Most of the volunteers I’ve had on my teams are professional people who are very talented in their jobs. They are given huge responsibilities at work and expected to handle the jobs flawlessly. And the vast majority of the time, they succeed.

Why is it, then, that when it comes to giving people responsibilities for ministry, we too often default either to not giving them any real responsibility, or giving them responsibilities but never any real authority to carry the tasks out, insisting that they run everything through us?

It’s important that we give real responsibility to people, but we also have to know their level of handling a task. (This can only happen through truly knowing the other person, as mentioned above.) It is demeaning to a well-trained person not to give her real authority to determine how to do something, even if she does it differently than you would. Similarly, it can feel oppressive to give someone a task he is not equipped to handle. All of us have had someone volunteer to take on a specific task of ministry only to fail. I’m convinced that most of the time, their failures are really our failures because we failed to make sure we had the right people for the right job.

In his book Good to Great, Jim Collins refers to this as getting the right people on the bus. For those of us in youth ministry, it means we first have to know what our real needs are then work hard to find people with the right mix of gifts who can succeed in the ministry areas to which we assign them.

When we lead teams by these principles, we develop a group of people who are willing to give everything to ensure the ministry succeeds. They do this because they believe in you as the leader and the vision you’ve cast. They do it because they find the community that is present to be vitally important in helping them live out their Christian faith. And they do it because they like to be successful, and the team allows them to do that.

Leading teams can be tough, but it can also be one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do if you get the right people doing the right jobs and learning to build deep relationships one with the other.

Dave Rahn


In Em Griffin’s IVP book from some years ago, Getting Together: A Guide for Good Groups, he summarized as succinctly as I ever heard how research on group dynamics collects around three factors that predict success and satisfaction. Whenever I think of leading teams, I run through my version of this mental checklist.

Where are we going? Ensuring there is a clear and commonly shared purpose, vision, and direction for any team is one of the most important elements to leading. A team imposes expectation of time and commitment on its members. Ultimately, everyone decides whether the cause is worth an investment.

The worst teams I’ve been part of have either been fuzzy about their reason for existence or their focus has shifted. Sometimes the change of direction is intentional. That’s fair, but team members need to have the opportunity to reevaluate their commitment when that takes place. At other times, teams simply get distracted by all of the other collateral causes they encounter while working on their main purpose. When that happens, the sense of dissatisfaction sneaks up on us a bit more slowly until we awaken one day to the realization that we “didn’t sign up for this.”

New coaches often bring changes in philosophy and direction to the teams they lead. They talk about how their squad has or has not bought in to the vision of what is now going to be attempted together. This psychological ownership of direction is a dynamic factor for those of us who lead teams. It should never be assumed, and we can’t work too hard at making sure that our purposes are clear and everyone is on board.

How do I fit? Teams are beautiful things when they work well. Their interdependence, coordination, synchronicity, and synergy introduce potential for accomplishment that simply can’t be matched by a collection of individual efforts. One of the important predictors of a team’s success is the degree to which every member of the team knows how she contributes to the common goal.

Sometimes these roles are identified formally. Bill always takes notes at our meetings. Jarrod translates our work for distribution through social media outlets. Nina pays attention to the calendar and ensures that our next steps are clear. But other roles emerge from within the dynamics of a group experience. We look to Tim for problem-solving analysis, and Joel supplies the right blend of humor and curiosity to keep things energized. It doesn’t matter much whether our team roles are formal or informal. What does matter is that every member realizes that the part he plays is necessary—not optional—as we co-labor toward a shared vision. Team leaders earn their keep by making sure everyone knows where he fits and feels valued for her contribution.

Are we tight? This last factor predicting team success is a little more slippery to get hold of. It testifies to a group’s cohesion, its members’ belief in each other, and the great sense of camaraderie that’s experienced together. Often it’s as simple as really liking being a member of this team. This factor should not be underestimated. It’s the glue that holds some teams together when challenges are particularly daunting. When it is not present, people begin to feel like belonging is no big deal.

Church softball or bowling teams all across the country are successful without ever posting winning records because they have created a sense of “we-ness” that is compelling to all sorts of non-athletes. When team members simply want to be part of whatever we’re doing simply because we’re doing it together, we’ve probably got a group that benefits from some good stickiness.

Leaders help make this happen by paying attention to the little things that pop up spontaneously to cement the group together. Shared experiences that supply vivid and colorful memories are particularly effective means to bind us together. We can plan for space to make them happen, like we do when we take team retreats. But we can’t always predict what amazing moments will take place or when. Good leaders notice the sparks that have the chance to fuel a fire of cohesion and fan them well.



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